The Mask
Unhappy and unfulfilled -
living a life for show
worried about appearance -
fear of falling short
wondering what others think -
trying to measure up
losing the will -
then pushing on
not letting go -
stubborn pride
afraid of being a failure -
recognition masking truth.
I like! You know, I think the difference is that the many hats we wear are often thrust upon our heads: Parent, spouse, sibling, child, neighbor, friend, co-worker, etc. OK, some we take on willingly. But with a mask, we take it on knowingly and purposefully---usually to hide or to hide something. It is truly a facade in every sense of the word. A mask is often about fear---fear of rejection, fear of failure, fear of whatever. Some of us put on a brave face when challenged but it is no less a mask.
ReplyDeleteI've been wearing so many hats lately I'm trying very hard to find the right fit.
ReplyDeleteTrebord - I like your distinction between hats and masks...hadn't thought about it that way. Thanks for your input.
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